Difficult situations are always overcome with the help of empathy, which is a feeling of likeness shared by people suffering in the same condition. People experience a variety of hardships and the human mind finds a way out knowingly or unknowingly. It may or may not be a conscious effort. Either way it is helpful for the others who face similar situation and seek help and advice from others. Codependency meeting thus helps them consolidate the different experiences and the remedies. People can benefit out of codependency meeting where they share and find out about themselves and others.
People find themselves having typical behavior of codependency when they come to the codependency meeting with gifts. It would have been their usual habit to take something with them to offer to the people they visit, be it a friends home or a party. This is done in order to gain the love of the people they visit. Otherwise they think that they may not be accepted by others. Inclusiveness is something which a codependent always long for. And many a time this habit of giving gifts is not recognized as a trait found in codependents but something inherited from the parents.
These and other typical traits are discussed when the codependency meeting is on and people are able to understand what mistakes they are making through which they lose their identity slowly. There are other such traits such as being unselfish and dedicated to others, thinking themselves to be inferior to others, not trying to get help from others, thinking a lot about others opinion about themselves, having to be considered important and needed to move with others.
In such codependency meeting people understand one another very well as they all are in the same situation. Depression and anxiety are commonly found among the members of such codependency meeting which is the result of their codependency. So the thinking about the benevolent nature as a gift by birth or brought up is to be gotten rid of and such traits are to be removed to gain the self back. Codependency meeting serves as an eye opener for those who just want to continue in the situation spoiling their peace of mind.
Codependency meeting eases the minds of the people who suffer from the condition. The Inner child healing information provided in the meetings is worth listening to and following.
Codependency is a condition which not only affects oneself but also the person involved also gets into trouble indirectly, which is evident in conditions of codependency marriage Marriages can be successful and long lasting only when there is understanding between the couple. The dysfunction of one of the partner can make the other become a co dependent and thus making the life of the relationship doubtful. It results in an unsatisfactory life and the relationship may not fulfill the needs and desires of the couple.
Codependency marriage always has one of the partners being over decisive and tends to attend to the other before taking care of oneself. The codependent always puts his desires and needs aside and tries to help the partner in all his needs. Being considerate is one thing and codependency marriage is another. In trying to do this they do not concentrate on their life and desires and they do not even try to fulfill their needs. It may be good in the beginning since you gain the love and attention of your partner but as the time passes frustration and anxiety sets in as it becomes a habit for both of you not to take care of your needs and feelings. This results in a codependency marriage, which is not healthy.
Codependency marriage almost has an atmosphere where there is some sort of an ill treatment is happening to one of the partners. But it is not the fault of the other partner, but it is the fault of the one who is codependent. The more one partner care about the other and keeps on giving the expectation of the other grows to an extreme level. The one who is always gives loses his or her identity and responsibility too.
Codependency marriage poses as a threat when the suppressed feelings of the co dependent are let out in the form of resentment. When you have to sacrifice something you consider important for you in order to attend to the needs of your partner, resentment sets in as time passes and the consequence is codependency marriage.
Codependency marriage also experiences a lack of communication between the partners. Many a times the needs are not taken care of since it is not spoken out. Even when there are difficulties caused because of one of the partner that can be discussed, being a codependent you may try to just live with it. This becomes damaging to the happy atmosphere in the family. To overcome the condition of codependency marriage, there should be better communication between the partners and they should feel free to talk to each other on all the issues.
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